• Consent is based on CHOICE.

• Consent is active not passive.

• Consent is possible only when there is equal power.

• If you cannot say “no” safely and comfortably, then “yes” has no meaning.

• Going along with some activity in order to feel accepted. is not consent; cooperation does not equal consent.

• Going along because of deceit is not consent.

• Giving in because of fear or pressure is not consent.

• If you are unwilling to accept “no”, then “yes” has no meaning.

• Needs to be informed consent: both parties must know and understand the action proposed, and must be able -- physically, emotionally, legally -- to agree to participate.

Montana law says it's not consent if:

• A person is under 16 years of age;

• A person is –

  • drunk or drugged;

  • deceived, coerced or surprised (as in either acquaintance or stranger assault); or

  • mentally ill

KNOW WHO YOU ARE WITH.

ALWAYS GET INFORMED CONSENT.

RESPECT “NO.”